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Story Time: Books For Children In Foster Care [Updated 2021]

By March 30, 2020March 25th, 2021Blog

Great books introduce our littles and bigs to so much! Particularly as a fostering family, books have helped us walk a sometimes complicated journey. Stories have a way of leading to conversation, and conversation helps bring healing.

Are you looking for some good reads to help the littles in your family? We have some recommendations! Side note—even though these are mostly geared at younger kids, have your bigs read them to their siblings. See how they interact together and jump in with subtle questions afterward to see what both the littles and bigs thought of the stories.

Most of these are recommendations from our team’s personal experience, but we also included some of your favorites! In this updated version of book recommendations, we included some new resources that our readers shared with us on our Facebook and Instagram.

(P.S. Looking for your own reading on foster care and foster parenting? Check out our list of books you should read about foster care.)

Here are our favorite books for children in foster care (and a couple bonus recommendations for children preparing for their family to foster):

Families Change: A Book for Children Experiencing Termination of Parental Rights

By Julie Nelson

All families change over time. A baby is born. A grown-up gets married. For children in foster care, change might mean new foster parents or a newly adopted Mom or Dad. Sometimes, when these changes occur, children can wonder—are these changes my fault; am I doing something wrong? I love that this book lets children voice these thoughts. There is space to remember and value their birth family and love a new family, too.

Straightforward words and full-color illustrations offer hope and support for children facing or experiencing change. As a bonus, it also includes resources and information for birth parents, foster parents, social workers, counselors, and teachers. It’s a great book if your family is in transition—which for foster families is quite common!

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A Mother for Choco

By Keiko Kasza

Family is about love, no matter how different parents and children may be, adopted or not.

In this story, Choco wishes he had a mother, but who could she be? He sets off to find her, asking all kinds of animals, but he doesn’t meet anyone who looks just like him. Mrs. Bear certainly doesn’t look like him, but she starts to do just the things a mommy would do. When she brings him home, he meets her other children—a piglet, a hippo, and an alligator! Choco finds his place in this new kind of family—one that doesn’t look like him but feels just right.

Do you have a blended, multiracial, or unique family dynamic? Choco finds comfort in being loved by someone who doesn’t look like him. Top that off with a well-blended group of siblings, and you have a snapshot of a lot of foster and adoptive families. And this book is just fun!

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Murphy’s Three Homes: A Story for Children in Foster Care

By Jan Levinson Gilman

If you have an animal lover or a special needs kiddo, consider this one. Murphy, a Tibetan Terrier puppy, is told he is a “good luck dog.” He is cheerful, happy, and loves to play and wag his tail. However, after going through two different homes and an animal shelter, Murphy starts to feel like a “bad luck dog” who nobody wants. He feels like it’s all his fault. Did he do something wrong? He doesn’t feel “good” anymore.

Sometimes, the kids we’re caring for don’t see themselves in other children or characters in stories, but often, animals can be a welcomed relief, an open door to communicating. They empathize with animals and see hurts and pain that otherwise they don’t know how to express. Seeing a dog change homes might be a catalyst to help your child heal and process. If you have a puppy lover in your life that has changed homes a time or two, this is the book for you.

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Speranza’s Sweater: A Child’s Journey Through Foster Care and Adoption

By Marcy Pusey

Children deserve a safe place to live and grow and learn. For some of our kids, this means living with foster or adoptive parents. This book chronicles one child’s experience through the foster and adoptive system. Speranza wears her sweater everywhere, hanging onto the last memories of her birth home until it’s threadbare. Like her unraveled sweater, Speranza must weave together a new story, bringing threads from her past and strands from her present into a future of love, family, and the true meaning of home.

As an adoptive mom, I want to hang onto as much information and pieces of my children’s past as I can. This story gives light to the fact that a child’s past is part of their story. Even if the material items disappear, the good memories and experiences can still stay.

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When God Made You

By Matthew Paul Turner

We all crave to know and discover who we are and why we’re here. That can be confusing for someone whose life has been flipped upside down as they enter foster care and are removed from all they’ve ever known. How do I fit in? Why am I here? This book beautifully gives children assurance that they were created with purpose, as they learn about their gifts and how they fit into God’s divine plan.

I love the way it is written and illustrated! It is playful, has charming rhymes, and the pages are filled with so many colors and images that will encourage and engage your child.

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Maybe Days: A Book for Children in Foster Care

By Jennifer Wilgocki

For many children in foster care, the answer to many questions is often maybe. Maybe Days is a straightforward look at the issues of foster care, the questions that children ask, and the feelings that they confront. A primer for children going into foster care, the book also explains in children’s terms the responsibilities of everyone involved – parents, social workers, lawyers, and judges. As for the children themselves, their job is to be a kid – and there’s no maybe about that.

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The Invisible String

By Patrice Karst

In this relatable and reassuring contemporary classic, a mother tells her two children that they’re all connected by an invisible string. “That’s impossible!” the children insist, but still they want to know more: “What kind of string?” The answer is the simple truth that binds us all: An Invisible String made of love. Even though you can’t see it with your eyes, you can feel it deep in your heart, and know that you are always connected to the ones you love.

This heartwarming picture book for all ages explores questions about the intangible yet unbreakable connections between us, and opens up deeper conversations about love.

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A Land Called Grief

By Patrice Karst

A Land Called Grief is a story that helps little and big kids alike understand the emotions that show up when we navigate through the stages of grief. Although grief can be heavy, this book helps us understand that our grief can be turned into something beautiful. A beauty that can heal. A beauty that can be shared.

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It’s Okay to Wonder

By Rhonda Wagner

(This is a resource primarily to help biological children prepare to welcome foster children into the home.)

It’s Okay to Wonder is a story about Avery, whose parents have decided to become foster parents. While Mom and Dad attend another foster training class, Avery shares with her Nana and Pop about her mixed-up feelings. She and her grandparents learn together what it might be like to become a foster family—that it’s okay to feel two emotions at the same time and that it’s okay to wonder!

The Joy of Avery series offers resources for foster care families and brings the world of foster care to life by exploring Avery’s feelings as her family welcomes foster children into their home. It’s Okay to Wonder is the first book in this faith-based series.

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Braver Than Me

By Rhonda Wagner

(This is a resource primarily to help biological children prepare to welcome foster children into the home.)

Braver Than Me is a story about Avery, a loquacious girl whose family welcomes their first foster child into their home. Avery shares with her Mom and Dad about her mixed-up feelings. She and her parents learn together what it is like to be a foster family-that it’s okay to feel two emotions at the same time, especially when reunification takes place. Love, bravery, and empathy fill the pages as Avery realizes her foster sibling is “braver than me.”

The Joy of Avery series offers resources for foster care families, and brings the world of foster care to life by exploring Avery’s feelings as her family welcomes foster children into their home. Braver Than Me is the second book in this faith-based series.

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The Good Dinosaur

By Bill Scollon

Based off the Disney/Pixar film, The Good Dinosaur is a humorous and exciting original story about Arlo, a lively Apatosaurus with a big heart. After a traumatic event unsettles Arlo’s family, he sets out on a remarkable journey, gaining an unlikely companion along the way—a human boy.

As they are close to returning home, Arlo learns that his new friend won’t be part of his family forever, and he has to say a hard goodbye. This is a sweet and adventurous story that has the potential to start some special conversations between you and your kids.

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The Who Loves Series

By Jami Kaeb

Ok, I’m a little biased on this one, but I love the Who Loves series! This series is for babies to pre-teens! Children in foster care typically have many individuals moving in and out of their lives. This constant change can lead to the false belief that no one loves them—it doesn’t even seem like anyone will stay with them for the long-term. This series is designed specifically to give children a different perspective on the people they interact with while they are in foster care.

The overarching message to the child is: You are worthy, you are loved, and we are all here for you! I love that these books let you identify and specifically name individuals in your child’s life. Read more about the impact of the Who Loves series for one family…

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Jami Kaeb

Adoption, foster care, and advocacy were not part of Jami’s dreams for her life, but God changed her heart when He made her aware, and she is passionate about helping others become aware too! She and her husband Clint are parents to their seven children (five through adoption).

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