There are many needs and concerns throughout the foster care community. Let's commit to praying for them together!
Sarah WilsonOctober 2, 2023
We recently asked people, “What is your WHY as a foster parent? Why did you start and why do you continue to say yes to this role?” and we got a variety of responses.
Quinn BrewerSeptember 15, 2023
It’s easy in transitional moments to let what “needs” to be done lead how we respond to our children’s big emotions.
Austin SavageSeptember 1, 2023
While it might be a little unconventional to draw correlations between a movie about Barbie and the foster care community, I hope some of these reminders help each of us slow down to consider our…
Quinn BrewerAugust 24, 2023
We’ve had the privilege of asking a few questions to Anne Schallmoser, an Educational Liaison at the Children’s Home Association of Illinois, a foster care agency based in Peoria, IL. Anne is a seasoned expert…
Jami KaebJuly 27, 2023
One of my favorite things is getting to share about the incredible work our TFI Advocates are doing across the nation. Today I get to give you a little insight into the work Mary Grant,…
Jami KaebJune 29, 2023
You may be wondering, how can I help mobilize my church to make an impact in the foster care community? The answer: be the example.
Jami KaebJune 15, 2023
Have you ever had a friend or family member walking through the adoption process, and you feel unsure of what to say? Or maybe you said something you thought would be fine, but it wasn’t…
Sarah WilsonJune 1, 2023
God is calling people just like you, who are aware of the people in the foster care community that feel forgotten, alone, or uncared for, to stand up and take action.
Jami KaebMay 18, 2023
Unable to verbalize all they felt at that moment, they cried. They knew leaving the agency car meant they weren’t going back to be with Mom today. A 40-minute drive back to our home—not their…
Holly GnuseMay 5, 2023
Unable to verbalize all they felt at that moment, they cried. They knew leaving the agency car meant they weren’t going back to be with Mom today. A 40-minute drive back to our home—not their…
Holly GnuseApril 20, 2023
There, of course, have been circumstances and moments that have been disappointing, but I hadn’t stopped to think about the disappointment I had felt in how the journey differed from my expectations.
Austin SavageApril 6, 2023
There are a lot of scary feelings surrounding jumping into foster care. But while we can't always control our circumstances or remove the unknown from the future, that doesn't mean we can't shift our perspective.
Mitch NelsonMarch 23, 2023
Did you know that March is National Social Work Month? Here at TFI, we are so grateful for the men and women who selflessly commit to supporting the foster care community each and every day…
Jami KaebMarch 9, 2023
Have you ever wondered how foster care works? Perhaps you are interested in becoming a foster parent or you are curious about the systems to provide care work in this country. Whatever the reason for…
Jami KaebFebruary 23, 2023
The first week of a foster care placement can be tough, and there are some practical things that may help during this initial period with the child placed in your home.
Sarah WilsonJanuary 26, 2023
Much of what I am learning has come through the training, coaching, encouragement, and resources provided through this ministry. And even more has come through the hands-on experiences brought about by seeking to build a…
Natalie LewisJanuary 12, 2023
To close out the year, we asked each member of our National team to share a simple word of encouragement that has been on their heart. Today we’d love to share each of their responses…
Jami KaebDecember 17, 2022
Did you know there are over 400,000 children in the United States foster care system? There are also over 300,000 churches across our nation. Do you ever wonder: Why isn’t the Church doing more?
Jami KaebDecember 5, 2022
There are a lot of scary feelings surrounding jumping into foster care. But while we can't always control our circumstances or remove the unknown from the future, that doesn't mean we can't shift our perspective.
Mitch NelsonOctober 31, 2022
At the end of September, our National team spent time in Kansas City with most of our TFI Advocates from all across the nation. We call this event our Advocate Retreat, and it is our…
Jami KaebOctober 17, 2022
Comparison is so easy, especially as a foster parent. There will always be people who have had more placements. "Harder" experiences. A wider range of ages that they're willing to care for. More knowledge. Does…
Austin SavageOctober 3, 2022
One of the hardest things about becoming a foster parent is realizing that the people you've walked through life with may not be the same people you share your foster care journey with.
Mitch NelsonSeptember 19, 2022
Sometimes movies just hit different when you’re connected to the foster care community, don’t they? Whether the movie is actually about foster care or not, sometimes the themes pull at your heart in a unique…
Quinn BrewerSeptember 5, 2022
I asked around The Forgotten Initiative’s office for some advice from people who have fostered school-aged kids, and I wanted to share with you some of the advice shared with me (along with some of…
Austin SavageAugust 22, 2022
Oh, how much I would have missed if my fears and my limited perspective ruled my steps. In 1 John 4:18, God’s word brings hope: “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts…
Jami KaebAugust 8, 2022
Our words are powerful indicators of our hearts. And they hold power to impact others beyond what we might realize. They can bring encouragement or devastation, depending on how you use them.
Jami KaebJuly 25, 2022
We get it. Sometimes, you don't know what to say to a foster parent. But are there things you should and shouldn't say? We think so.
Holly GnuseJuly 11, 2022
Nearly 4 years ago now (wow, time really has flown by!), we released a new resource for the foster care community: a three-book series that conveys age-appropriate messages of love and encouragement to children in…
Mitch NelsonJune 20, 2022
You don't need to plan or spend too much to have fun as a family this summer. Here are 15 summer activities for the whole family that you can try this year:
Sarah WilsonJune 6, 2022
As foster parents, here are four common questions that we get from curious people and how we typically respond. We hope this is helpful as you plan your own responses!
Mitch NelsonApril 25, 2022
Whether you know it or not, there are people in your community involved with foster care. We want to make an introduction, or rather, help you grow in understanding of this often forgotten group. Meet the…
Mitch NelsonApril 21, 2022
It’s easy to hear a statistic like “there are over 400,000 children in the U.S. in foster care in any given year” and feel overwhelmed. How do we even begin to pray for something as…
Sarah WilsonApril 11, 2022
As the call ended, Sarah hung up the phone and leaned back in her chair. This case wasn’t an emergency yet, and didn’t require a formal report, but it could become an emergency soon.
Mitch NelsonMarch 28, 2022
You're a reader, but how are you supposed to figure out which books can give you the encouragement, insight, and help that you need on your foster care journey? At TFI, we get all kinds…
The Forgotten InitiativeMarch 14, 2022
We love reading in our house—from growing imagination and concentration to building vocabulary and emotional empathy; books introduce our littles and bigs to so much! Particularly as a fostering family, books have helped us walk…
Jami KaebMarch 14, 2022
Though we have much more information than in the first days, there are still gaps. There are questions that are challenging to answer—honest, curious questions that have incomplete answers.
Holly GnuseFebruary 28, 2022
Can foster parents claim their child as a dependent when filing taxes? Whether you've been doing your own taxes for years or have someone run the numbers for you, this question can be tough to…
Mitch NelsonFebruary 14, 2022
At the start of every year, we set goals with every intention of checking off each resolution as we complete it. We come up with the ideal plan for personal success. For some of us…
Mitch NelsonJanuary 25, 2022
Today I get to introduce you to 4 of our newest TFI Advocates! I’m excited for you to learn more about them so that you can pray for them, know what’s going on here at…
Jami KaebJanuary 17, 2022
We want to help churches carry out the great commandment to love God and love others (Matthew 22:36-40). We want to help churches carry out the great commission to “go therefore and make disciples” starting…
Mitch NelsonDecember 22, 2021
It’s easy to be thankful when life is good. We thank God for our new home, friendships, or the promotion at work. But what about when life is hard? What about when the uncertainties of…
Mitch NelsonNovember 22, 2021
Every year, approximately 23,000 youth “age out” of foster care in the United States. Aging out occurs when unadopted youth emancipate from foster care, usually between the ages of 18 and 21 (age varies based…
Sarah WilsonNovember 8, 2021
How often do we respond to God's prompting with all the reasons we should say no? If you’re anything like me, more often than you would like.
Mitch NelsonOctober 25, 2021
When your passion leads to advocacy, we see more people become aware, which leads to more action taken, which leads to more people experiencing Jesus together.
Jami KaebSeptember 27, 2021
But when it comes to more important things in our lives, in foster care or ministry, waiting for God’s timing can feel difficult to understand. To me, speed would only benefit all parties involved! I…
Quinn BrewerSeptember 13, 2021
Can I just tell you how good our God is? Day after day, He is reminding me of His presence, and how much He cares for my family, for me, for you, and for this…
Jami KaebAugust 30, 2021
Each of these people are incredible leaders with a huge heart for the foster care community, and we are so excited to have them as part of the TFI family. Here's a little bit more about each…
Jami KaebAugust 16, 2021
Jesus never placed himself in a position above others. He led by serving, and He loved by serving. He washed feet. He fed thousands. He walked to heal the sick. He spent time with those…
Mitch NelsonAugust 2, 2021
We’ve passed the two-year mark in our foster care case: two years of navigating goal changes and uncertainty. As foster parents, we’ve attached, released, prepared to say goodbye, and stayed when goodbye didn’t come. We…
Holly GnuseJuly 19, 2021
This week, I wanted to introduce you to one of our Advocates in Baton Rouge, LA. Cherith Craft is an incredible leader who has seen God do some real cool things. This week, I wanted…
Jami KaebJuly 6, 2021
Sometimes I look out at my beautiful family that the Lord has entrusted me with, my family, and I feel pure joy. I watch them play, even argue, and I can't help but smile. But…
Jami KaebJune 21, 2021
As an agency worker, do you ever feel pressure? Chances are, the answer is yes. You might feel pressure to fix the situations you see. Maybe you feel the pressure of a heavy caseload and…
Becky NelsonJune 7, 2021
Vulnerability is scary because you are opening yourself up to the possibility of being hurt – of being rejected. As a foster parent, it’s well-documented that you are constantly making decisions that leave you vulnerable.…
Gaelin ElmoreMay 24, 2021
I know that foster care is about caring for children and coming alongside their family. Yet, in days of anxious waiting, I have noticed that I begin to feel as if I am the victim.
Sarah WilsonApril 26, 2021
We just crossed over the ten year mark at The Forgotten Initiative. Ten years of ministry! Crazy, right!? In some ways, it feels like the years have sped by, but at the same time, a…
Jami KaebApril 12, 2021
The whole week before our latest court date, my wife and I struggled to sleep. We were less productive at work and, even though we regularly gave the outcome over to God, the uncertainty just…
Austin SavageMarch 15, 2021
Whether you’re boldly running forward or you’re bravely ready to learn more, choosing an agency is your next step. But, how do you choose a foster care agency?
Holly GnuseMarch 1, 2021
Maybe you’re on the edge of involvement. You feel yourself being pulled toward taking action, but you haven’t made it to the point of total surrender yet. I would encourage you to look at the…
Becky NelsonFebruary 15, 2021
Seeing and experiencing brokenness can lead us to pursue positive, God-directed change in or around us, or it can far too easily bring about misguided anger, frustration, or cause us to become jaded or stuck.
Jami KaebFebruary 1, 2021
Here we are at the end of a year marked by so much—2020. I know that wherever you are on your foster care journey, this year has likely had its ups and downs. Times where…
Mitch NelsonDecember 21, 2020
For many of us, when we think of the holiday season, we think of giving back. There's something about Thanksgiving and Christmas that makes us want to be generous and show the love of Jesus…
Becky NelsonDecember 7, 2020
As these new people in my life spoke about their journeys in the foster care community, I suddenly realized that I had a lot of preconceived notions about what foster care was actually like. I…
Becky NelsonNovember 23, 2020
You can’t enter the world of foster care and not be changed by it. It affects so many areas of everyday life, including how you parent. Being foster parents, we quickly realized we would need…
Cherith CraftNovember 19, 2020
If there is anything that being a foster and adoptive parent has taught me, it is how much I don’t know. I see the world through my own experiences, and those experiences fall woefully short…
The Forgotten InitiativeNovember 12, 2020
There are so many unknowns that come with stepping into foster care. As a foster parent, I’m learning—yes, still learning; ya’ll it’s a process—to keep walking forward amid unknowns. I can plan and do my…
Jillian KellenbergerNovember 9, 2020
The learning curve in knowing what to do and say as a foster parent feels steep sometimes. As children in your care are trying to make sense of all that is happening around them, and…
Holly GnuseNovember 5, 2020
Because our focus as a ministry is on foster care, we want to highlight specific information and needs for the “orphans” in the U.S.—specifically kids in foster care waiting to be adopted. Take some time…
The Forgotten InitiativeOctober 29, 2020
Can we talk about biological family for a minute? When we stepped into this foster parenting journey years ago, honestly, I had NO interest in getting to know our future foster kids’ biological families. I…
Cherith CraftOctober 26, 2020
My dear friend, I’m sorry you’re in this place of walking (or crawling) through grief. I’m sorry you’ve experienced (or are preparing to experience) loss. I know there is nothing to be said to take…
Jillian KellenbergerOctober 22, 2020
I suppose there is this moment in every parent’s journey. We know it’s coming at the start. The number of days that your child will grow within the walls of your home is limited. There…
Holly GnuseOctober 15, 2020
When I’m on a rollercoaster, I find it extremely difficult to throw my arms into the air and let them flail about. I find no enjoyment in that. Instead, I keep my hands firmly connected…
Jillian KellenbergerOctober 12, 2020
Do you ever open up your Bible app, hit play, and let the truth of God's Word wash over you? If not, try it; I promise it's a breath of fresh air from the constant…
Jillian KellenbergerOctober 8, 2020
We’re on the cusp of reunification. Here, as we near the end, this isn’t what I thought it would be like. I wanted to feel secure in knowing that the same patterns would not repeat…
Holly GnuseOctober 1, 2020
Sometimes, it just feels easier to avoid the mess of foster care. It feels more comfortable not to pursue communication with biological parents. It feels easier to keep everyone else on the team at an…
Becky NelsonSeptember 28, 2020
Hair care is on the list of so many other things we have to learn about as we care for new kiddos. Instead of letting it stress us out or overwhelm us, we can use…
Jillian KellenbergerSeptember 24, 2020
Foster care is full of good and hard, ups and downs, joys and sorrows. It's a place where you hold more than one emotion at a time, and often those feelings and emotions oppose one…
Jillian KellenbergerSeptember 17, 2020
Whether you're walking the road towards reunification and you're mourning the loss of a child's presence in your home or you're holding onto each moment knowing that the day they leave is drawing near, grief…
Becky NelsonSeptember 14, 2020
Teens. It's often one of the big scary words in the foster care world, so the fact that you're here reading this means a lot! It means you're open and willing to learning more.
Jillian KellenbergerSeptember 10, 2020
I think about all of the times where I’m struggling to believe something good about myself, and the moment that someone else validates for me that they are with me and that I have value…
Jillian KellenbergerSeptember 3, 2020
Have you ever been handed a decision that you want to say, “wait, shouldn’t I have a say in this?” I have valuable thoughts to add before you make these changes in the case. I…
Becky NelsonAugust 31, 2020
For those of us that have interactions with agency workers, we have an important role to play. We cannot be another “challenging” part of their day. We need to be encouraging, full of hope, and…
Jillian KellenbergerAugust 27, 2020
Visit days are the worst. And visit days are, arguably, one of the most important days for our children. It's paradoxical—much like the rest of foster care—holding two strong emotions in the same breath. If…
Holly GnuseAugust 20, 2020
Today, I don’t like foster care. I don’t like seeing the faults of the system. It was never the final or complete solution meant to overcome abuse and neglect, but it’s what we have to…
Jillian KellenbergerAugust 17, 2020
If you’re painfully journeying through a difficult season right know, we see you. Friend, you are heard. Please know, you are NOT alone. It may be hard, but set some intentional time aside to read…
Jillian KellenbergerAugust 13, 2020
There is a way back to the joy and eagerness, and we have a God who has shown us how. We can fight against the enemy and against our sin. We can stand on the…
Holly GnuseAugust 6, 2020
Foster care has changed me. It's changed our family. Change isn't wrong; in fact, I think this change has been good—though hard—for us. I've had to think about things differently. Here are three powerful lessons…
Jami KaebAugust 3, 2020
This school year will be different from all the years' past. How do we prepare our children well for these differences and changes? How do we walk our children who need additional educational support for…
Jillian KellenbergerJuly 30, 2020
We became a big family suddenly through foster care—growing by 3 kids in 5 months and doubling the number of children in our home. Not long after, we added one more to our crew through…
Jami KaebJuly 27, 2020
I'll never forget the first phone call we shared. She was very nervous, and so was I. She had her stereotypes of folks like me, and I had mine of folks like her, but when…
Jami KaebJuly 23, 2020
Let's be real. At some point, every parent feels like giving up. No matter what it is, parenting can feel like an uphill battle.
Mitch NelsonJuly 20, 2020
Today, I rarely think twice about the fact that I’m a single parent—it’s just normal. My biggest struggle in single parenting initially, wasn’t necessarily parenting alone, but getting to a place of understanding that my…
Jillian KellenbergerJuly 16, 2020
I've been part of putting together Journey Bags, Christmas presents, bed builds, and different events we threw for a local agency. I knew these projects were important and that they made a difference in some…
Becky NelsonJuly 9, 2020
For many of us, we've stepped into foster care because we care about people. We care about serving and caring for those around us. Even if you aren't directly involved in the foster care community,…
Mitch NelsonJuly 6, 2020
We’ve gathered some resources focusing on marriage in ministry—foster care ministry specifically. Check them out. What are things you and your spouse need to implement to stay healthy and supporting others well? Set a time…
Jillian KellenbergerJuly 2, 2020
After five and a half years of marriage and no children of our own, the Lord saw it fit to make my wife and I the foster parents of two beautiful little girls. One year…
Holly GnuseJune 22, 2020
Last night after reassuring her that the room was safe and our house was safe, I took a risk and pressed in. I asked, "Honey, were there ever scary people that came into Mommy and…
Jami KaebJune 11, 2020
Parenting is the greatest, yet most difficult thing you’ll ever experience. I don’t know if you’ve heard this said, but it holds true in my life. Parenting is the role in my life where I’ve…
Jillian KellenbergerJune 8, 2020
We are far from experts on our country's history regarding race and what is happening right now, but we are listening. We are learning. We want to see change. We are in this together. Here…
Jillian KellenbergerJune 4, 2020
I've always been interested in adoption, and I've expressed interest in the foster care system. Last summer, I went to a youth conference put on by Christ In Youth, and one of the focuses of…
Mitch NelsonMay 28, 2020
It was bad. I remember looking out the window at the kids playing, and I felt nothing but tired and overwhelmed. My husband would come home from work where he would often find me on…
Jami KaebMay 25, 2020
We want to encourage you to take some time to sit down and create a vision for this summer with your family—a realistic vision that will not only strengthen the relationships in and around your…
Jillian KellenbergerMay 21, 2020
How can I love a child who was not born to me? It’s a question often asked, or if not asked out loud, it’s that thought that feels too cold to say but a question…
Jami KaebMay 14, 2020
A lot has changed in the last couple months, and to be honest, I think there are some serious consequences to the rapid pace of change we've experienced recently. I know I could use a…
Mitch NelsonMay 11, 2020
Whether you’re a biological, adoptive, foster, or stepmom, you are MOM. Whether you are with your kids this Mother’s Day or they are separated from you (no matter the reason), we are so thankful to…
Jillian KellenbergerMay 7, 2020
Not too long ago, we asked this question on Facebook—what is your #1 tip you would give to a new foster parent? And wow! We got a lot of answers! You can check out the…
Mitch NelsonApril 30, 2020
I’m encouraged by, feel heavy-hearted for, and praying with friends near and far who have shared their stories of infertility—stories wrought with unbearable pain, stories still unfolding, and stories of incredible loss.
Holly GnuseApril 27, 2020
There are things that happen in our foster care journeys that only others involved in the world of foster care will understand and laugh out loud right alongside you.
The Forgotten InitiativeApril 23, 2020
I don't know about you, but this time of quarantine has shown me a lot about myself. And, not necessarily the good stuff.
Jami KaebApril 16, 2020
This time at home balancing work, homeschool, and caring for children is stressful. Super stressful. For some, balancing life works well; if this is you, you're a rockstar! For many others, this time feels chaotic…
Jillian KellenbergerApril 9, 2020
Advocating for my child's best interest can be so tricky. Do you ever want to say, "Forget this advocacy nonsense, I'm going to FIGHT for what is right!"?
Jillian KellenbergerApril 2, 2020
Foster care doesn't get to stop in times of crisis; sure, some things about it have to change depending on the state, but now more than ever, we need to advocate and care for those…
The Forgotten InitiativeMarch 26, 2020
For all its mess, this journey has impressed upon incredible lessons—but one continues to be at the forefront of my thoughts these days...
Jillian KellenbergerMarch 19, 2020
I'm not a medical professional, and I'm not here to report my latest research about COVID-19. But I am here to address what I think is potentially just as dangerous, especially as followers of Jesus,…
Mitch NelsonMarch 16, 2020
Trauma shows itself in all facets of the lives of our children, whether they are at home in our care or in public spaces. While we have a part to play at home as foster…
Jillian KellenbergerMarch 12, 2020
“Mom! What do I do? What do I do?” I could tell things had escalated by the tone in my daughter’s voice as she called out for me. This was the moment I realized just…
Shannon SpaidMarch 5, 2020
I’ll never forget the day I learned a hard lesson at the grocery store check-out line. I was using WIC, and from behind me I heard, “How does she even have those coupons? Do you…
Shannon SpaidMarch 2, 2020
Church should be one of the safest places for children from hard places and those caring for them. Unfortunately, their experience can be the opposite if the church is uneducated on trauma and the effects…
Jillian KellenbergerFebruary 27, 2020
Foster care has a way of completely rocking your world. Am I right?! What should we do when we feel like throwing in the towel and calling it quits?
Jillian KellenbergerFebruary 20, 2020
We understand this is so hard. You may be wrecked to your core right now. Or maybe you're struggling even to start grieving because you don't want to feel the pain. Please know all the…
Jillian KellenbergerFebruary 13, 2020
Children in foster care need the same things every other kid needs—shelter, safety, love, compassion, and guidance. Pray the following scriptures over the many children in foster care, both in your own community and across…
Mitch NelsonFebruary 6, 2020
Being in court, looking up at a judge, is a stark realization that your child’s life is in the hands of a court system you have no control over. I prayed against feelings of frustration,…
Shannon SpaidFebruary 3, 2020
Building a relationship with a birth parent of a child in our care can be the most beautiful yet challenging thing we ever experience. It will never go as planned or expected, so we should…
Jillian KellenbergerJanuary 30, 2020
We want to see people everywhere supporting the foster care community and experiencing Jesus together. This isn’t just a great tagline here at The Forgotten Initiative, but it’s the vision we’re passionate about. It drives…
Holly GnuseJanuary 23, 2020
Ten months ago, I became a foster parent. I was licensed for quite sometime before that, but ten months ago, I received my first placement, and a little girl entered my life and home. I…
Jillian KellenbergerJanuary 20, 2020
Whether you've found yourself reading this with a heart already oozing with compassion or you're pleading for a new perspective, here are some great resources to help you on your journey!
Jillian KellenbergerJanuary 16, 2020
We're six months into this foster parenting thing, and we have learned a lot of lessons. But, I'm finding some lessons to be a lot harder to learn and adjust to than I thought.
Holly GnuseJanuary 9, 2020
The hard in foster care is real. As much as we all work to try and create clarity and play on the same team, it sometimes feels like the conflict will never end.
Jillian KellenbergerJanuary 6, 2020
Stepping into foster parenting is a big deal, and not something that you should take lightly. Check-out these great resources as you think and pray through what your next steps look like.
Jillian KellenbergerJanuary 2, 2020
Growing up, I found myself hanging with friends in the neighborhood that were a couple of years older than me. They were so cool! But once I got to be their age, I realized that…
Mitch NelsonDecember 26, 2019
We met our foster son in the NICU. We watched as nurses and doctors cared for him, trying to learn all we could. We got to know him, and we loved him.
Shannon SpaidDecember 23, 2019
Deep in the trenches of foster parenting, it can be a lonely place to find yourself. Our prayer is that this resource will bring you encouragement and hope as you interact with truths from God’s…
Mitch NelsonDecember 19, 2019
Being a foster dad is the most beautiful opportunity to invest in the lives of children who come from hard places. It’s a rewarding, exciting, and purpose-filled experience. But it’s also really hard...
Austin SavageDecember 12, 2019
Whether it's eating healthier, or working out more regularly, one of the best byproducts of starting a new healthy habit is beginning to actually see the results... and the habit of being generous and giving…
Mitch NelsonDecember 9, 2019
Trauma. Goodness, there is A LOT behind that small six-letter word. As a caregiver, it’s your job to create a safe and healing space for your child, but what does that look like? What if…
The Forgotten InitiativeDecember 5, 2019
I will never forget how I felt when my son’s birth mother passed away. Of the many emotions that were running through my mind, there is one that sticks out.
The Forgotten InitiativeNovember 28, 2019
I love Christmas. Well...I love most things about Christmas. No season is perfect, but I love so many things about this special time of year. While gift-giving can be a great experience, it also has…
Holly GnuseNovember 25, 2019
I'm sure you're researching, taking notes, organizing, and doing everything you can to prepare for children to soon walk into your life. Or maybe you're past that stage, and you've been waiting…for months and months.…
Jillian KellenbergerNovember 21, 2019
We had some expectations about what foster care would look like. Some of those expectations were met, but most of them looked much different than we anticipated. So I wanted to share a brief list…
Austin SavageNovember 14, 2019
Parenting. What a journey! Sometimes, it’s the greatest journey I’ve been on; other times, not so much. And what about when my child has multiple people parenting them? How do we manage?
Jillian KellenbergerNovember 11, 2019
Foster care is a mix of emotions for us big people. I don’t pretend to know what it’s like for our little people. I just try to look for any clues I can.
Holly GnuseNovember 7, 2019
Meet Cherith. She’s married to Brandon, and they have three beautiful daughters and a sweet pup named Cindy Lou. If you’re exploring the idea of becoming a foster parent, keep reading. Cherith answers the questions…
Holly GnuseOctober 28, 2019
One of the most common questions we hear being asked in foster care is, “How will bringing kids in and out of our home affect our forever kids?” You may be surprised with the answer...
The Forgotten InitiativeOctober 24, 2019
As I grew up, I saw monkeys at the zoo and on TV channels like Animal Planet, but a monkey was just that…a monkey. But on Halloween night years ago, I was shocked to realize…
Shannon SpaidOctober 22, 2019
Who wants chewed up cushions? No takers? A recliner now broken in two? What about a loveseat with once comfy micro-suede that now looks more shiny than soft?
Shannon SpaidOctober 17, 2019
For eight years, I dreamed of the day I would become a foster parent, but my picture perfect expectations aren't panning out to be perfect at all...
Jillian KellenbergerOctober 14, 2019
Foster care is hard, and it can leave us asking questions like, "Why am I in this? Why is this so hard? How will I ever make it through?" We pray that you find hope…
Mitch NelsonOctober 10, 2019
Getting the call for a placement comes with a wave of emotions. The moment you see the worker’s number come up on your phone, you’ve already got butterflies about what she will tell you. Will…
Holly GnuseSeptember 30, 2019
Last week we read some really great posts about co-parenting, the really messy reality that foster care is HARD, and a we found a great "thank you" letter that encouraged us a bunch! If you're…
Mitch NelsonSeptember 26, 2019
Life in foster care—it’s something. We’ve all had that day that just does not go as planned. You’re driving to work—this might not sound like anything special, but trust me, it is. Today’s the first…
Jillian KellenbergerSeptember 16, 2019
Last week we read some really great posts about navigating back to school season, helping our kiddos deal with grief, and how to balance our feelings with our faith. If you're looking for some amazing…
The Forgotten InitiativeSeptember 12, 2019
Can I just admit something right now? I don’t really know what I’m doing. You’ve probably noticed. No, strike that. You’ve definitely noticed, and you’ve been kind. Sometimes you’ve shared your honest thoughts. I’m sure…
Holly GnuseSeptember 5, 2019
Many people jump into foster care because they want to love on kids (which is awesome!). There is no shame here in choosing to open your home to a child who needs a safe place…
Jillian KellenbergerAugust 29, 2019
Before you get that call from the caseworker, add these things to your to-do list. We know that list is long, but we promise, these things will make all the difference. How do we know?…
Shannon SpaidAugust 22, 2019
It hit me last night. You see, my girls LOVE Play-Doh, and my mom was kind enough to buy them some to bring back to our house. I, on the other hand, have a love-hate…
Holly GnuseAugust 15, 2019
Living the single life can be so freeing. The freedom and independence we, as single people, have is so joyous—being able to do what we want at the drop of a hat. Honestly, I’ve loved…
Jillian KellenbergerAugust 8, 2019
As a parent in a blended family, I have many titles, but a simple Mom will do. Technically, I am Birth Mom, Step Mom, Foster Mom, and Adoptive Mom. But in real life, I simply…
Shannon SpaidAugust 5, 2019
Let’s talk about the teen years. Our little people grow into young adults and with that comes new challenges and joys. We each have our thoughts about teens in general. Add in foster care to…
Josh & Liz ArchambaultAugust 1, 2019
I’m not sure if anyone I know would describe any part of life as “easy,” especially not the foster families I know. Whether it’s a comment from a stranger in the grocery store, the dread…
Mitch NelsonJuly 25, 2019
We know that helping your children record their lives can be challenging, and we want to help! Download the FREE Who Loves series lifebook designed not only to help you record your children's lives, but also…
Mitch NelsonJuly 24, 2019
Life got interesting in our household a few weeks ago. Two little girls, ages 3 & 4, entered our home and hearts. We love them and yet with all the joy, there are challenges.
Holly GnuseJuly 18, 2019
Yesterday marked 3 months. 90 days. 2,160 hours. I’ve been a MOM. I’m sorry, whaaaat?! So often my selfishness comes through. Why did I do this? I had such freedom before. Now I have a…
Jillian KellenbergerJuly 16, 2019
Navigating a relationship with your child's birth parent or helping your children process their feelings about their birth parents is not easy, and we have a FREE resource to help you do exactly that.
Jami KaebJuly 11, 2019
Maybe you're thinking about foster care. You've started to research what you're about to jump into, and you want to be as informed as you can. You've contacted an agency. Maybe you've even started your…
Shannon SpaidJuly 3, 2019
It doesn’t matter what age or stage you’re currently in, having friends to walk beside you is a good thing. A sweet thing. I’m finding that true even, and especially, in this foster care journey.
Holly GnuseJune 13, 2019
Before we ever said “yes” to our first placement, we wanted to make sure we were setting ourselves AND our kids up for success. For us, that meant evaluating our health as a family. How…
Shannon SpaidJune 4, 2019
I think back to the beginning of this whole journey. Foster care classes. After the lesson for the day, our instructor would ask if we had any questions. After a few weeks in, we already…
Shannon SpaidMay 13, 2019
